Paul Roebuck | Blog, Articles and Thought Leadership about Human Behaviour, Psychology, Neuroscience, and a whole manner of topics.
There are two types of people. Not by personality, not by diagnosis — but by what happens inside them when things go wrong. I’ve spent thirty years watching this play out in boardrooms and therapy rooms. The difference isn’t what people feel under pressure. It’s where that feeling goes. And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
Read MorePsychotherapist, former Sales Director, cancer survivor and intentional photographer Paul Roebuck reveals the single question that connects 30 years of work, seven years of blogging, and every client he has ever sat with. From dark matter to the limbic system, grief to executive performance, inner child therapy to funeral photography — everything here is one question asked from every angle. If you’ve ever wondered what connects these posts, this is where it starts.
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Read MoreI photograph the moment between awareness and response.
The instant someone realises they are seen, before performance begins.
Not every image is meant to be shared.
Intentional photography is knowing when presence matters more than publication.
Sometimes the most truthful act is not posting the photograph at all.
Read MoreAre you a Not Good Enough (NGE) or a Not My Fault (NMF) person?
After several thousand hours working with several hundred individuals as a counsellor and coach I’ve concluded each of us fit into one of these behavioural states.
This article examines the characteristics of both, and how our Emotional Intelligence can be enriched with this knowledge.
Read MoreThe word Life has many meanings. It describes the journey from birth to death, and encompasses all our experiences, which form our memories. What precisely do we do with those memories?
Read MoreUse this personal wealth calculator to help you realise your true value
Read MoreOur behaviour (how we act and react) largely determines the kind of outcomes we get. If and athlete trains well (a behaviour) then they will likely run faster for example. How we behave (act and react) is determined by how we feel.
This article examines how our beliefs about something or someone impacts our outcomes
Read MoreThe conflict between the Royals and the interview with Oprah provides a wonderful opportunity to examine the victim and rescuer described in the Karpman triangle
Read MoreThe worldwide best seller by Dr. Stephen R. Covey is simply a must read for anyone wishing to develop their leadership skills, emotional intelligence or further their personal development.
At 381 pages it’s quite a substantial and quite a technical read so here is a 2 minute video which quickly summarises the 7 habits.
Read MoreIt’s madness. Why is it we can continue to repeat unhelpful, unhealthy, unwanted patterns of behaviour, yet at the first opportunity we drop healthy and seemingly preferred behaviours as quick as you can say never again.
Read MoreThis is an apt description for people who find themselves in a role that they don’t feel worthy of. They often describe feeling like a fraud and have a fear of being found out, yet these can be extraordinary competent, talented and successful people, if only they could see what others see.
Read MoreAnxiety is the most popular search term used by those seeking mental health support. Saying “try not to worry” is our most common response. How else can we help them?
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