Psychotherapist · Author · AI Coach
Behaviour, made visible — yours, other people’s, and your AI’s.
A professional career in technology sales, then coaching, teaching emotional education, and ten years in the psychotherapist’s chair. Now I’ve turned the lens on AI — and I train, coach and educate the leaders who carry its consequences.
Education, training and coaching
I’m here about AIFor the people who carry the consequence when AI gets it wrong. 14 million words written with it since the week it arrived (counted 30 September 2026), and a way of reading what it is really doing while you read its answer.For your team, or for you →Therapy and coaching
I’d like to talkSomething has happened. Or it hasn’t yet, and you can see it coming. Or nothing has happened at all and it still isn’t right. Grief, trauma, anger, relationships — and the life that fits on paper and doesn’t fit you.Face to face in Oxhill, or by video →Three books, five field guides, four papers
The booksMind the Gap from the human side, The Pebble That Talks Back from the machine’s, and The Last Gap — fifteen letters written to an hour of grief.Read, or buy →Free to try, nothing to install
The instrumentsSHaDS® reads how an AI covers when it doesn’t know. APC™ reads what a person does under the same pressure. The Map shows the ground between them.Try one now →Latest
The Three Little Words: I Don't Know
There is always a gap between what we know and what we say. We live on one shore of it and cannot see the other. What we say instead of I don't know…
A BMW dealership’s AI receptionist told me the merits of BYD
On the first call the receptionist was superb. No gap. Then it went off piste: the Middle East, the Holocaust, and the case for a Mercedes, a Porsche…
Door Finding & Key Making: why AI agents get past locked doors
To an AI there’s no such thing as a door. There are only gates with locks. It either finds the key or makes one. Same breakout, different walls.