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What doesn’t go in the will

2025 · 2 min read

Graphic: What Truly Matters, the things we leave behind that don't fit into a will

Written in 2025 about the full InTeo vision. The free app is the first, simpler step.

Those things which don’t make it into the will, or anywhere else other than our private thoughts. Perhaps some scribbling, perhaps a file.

Ten kinds of things InTeo helps you set down:

1. Personal Legacy and Memories

Document your life’s stories, share cherished memories, and leave meaningful messages for loved ones. From heartfelt farewells to advice and words of encouragement, InTeo helps ensure your love and values live on.

2. Strengthening Relationships

Mend connections, express gratitude, or share apologies. InTeo offers a space to leave personal tokens or messages for specific individuals, helping you reconnect and ensure loved ones feel emotionally supported.

3. Funeral and Farewell Planning

Plan your farewell exactly as you want it. Choose music, readings, or rituals for your service. Write your own eulogy or leave instructions for who to notify and how to celebrate your life.

4. Health and Care Wishes

Document your preferences for care and treatment, from advance directives to palliative care options. Make it easier for loved ones to honour your wishes with clarity and confidence.

5. Practical Day-to-Day Support

Ensure pets are cared for, subscriptions are cancelled, and responsibilities are managed. With InTeo, you can plan for these little details, easing the burden on those you leave behind.

6. Digital and Social Media Legacy

Plan how your online presence will be managed. Leave final social media posts, ensure photos and videos are safely stored, and decide what happens to your digital accounts.

7. Emotional Well-Being

InTeo isn’t just about logistics — it’s about peace of mind. Reflect on your life, share meaningful insights, or write letters that bring comfort to those you care about.

8. Financial and Practical Guidance

Provide step-by-step guidance for managing finances, accounts, and household responsibilities. Offer clear instructions to make life easier for your loved ones.

9. Community and Connections

Make sure friends, neighbours, and your community are informed and supported. Plan gatherings or celebrations of life to bring people together.

10. Personal Comfort and Wishes

From favourite items nearby to choosing what to wear at your funeral, InTeo ensures your personal wishes are respected.

InTeo isn’t just a tool; it’s a companion that helps you prepare for life’s transitions while helping your loved ones adapt. Let us help you create a lasting legacy of love, guidance, and connection.

To start with it’s simply a “send a message to” tool.

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